Reply To: Declining A Gift Home › Forums › Chesed › Declining A Gift › Reply To: Declining A Gift March 14, 2012 2:20 am at 2:20 am #859547 s2021Member Its very rude to decline a gift. Its like saying thanx but I dont need ur trash. Take it, and show HAKARAS HATOV. U can give it away descretely later.