“draw false conclusions from made-up facts.”
The only fact I was provided is the fact that a 21 y/o woman cannot get a commitment from her male counterpart in the dating process.
Obviously, I do not know the opening poster in the real world nor do I know the person she is dating.
But, if she is like the 100s of other 21 year old women in today’s shidduch scene, and he is like the truckloads of boys on the shidduch scene, she is head and shoulders above him, in both maturity and accomplishment.
So if she wants to get engaged, (and the commitment is not forthcoming from the boy) she has 2 choices:
A) Wait for someone to ask
B) Have her ask
Sounds weird, but the shidduch scene today is somewhat weird to begin with