1 of the members of the Shul mentioned to him, that the Rabbi had instructed the members only to give to schonorrers who have enough courtesey to don Talis & Tefillin & actually pray at that Shul Minyan
That makes no sense at all. They are going to many minyonim, and can’t possibly daven at each one.
If your complaint is that they shouldn’t collect during davening, you should say that. But you (the rabbi) shouldn’t make up stupid reasons like that which are completely false.
I didn’t know sdom was in North America.