Depot, 🙂 I chap!
I meant to say that I don’t know any guys (even heavy) that are interested in dating a 200 pound + girl.
So if that were the case i’d understand why they weren’t being redt shidduchim. Though that IS puzzling, cuz there are many really heavy dudes (as u pointed out) and I wonder why they’d have a problem with an overweight girl as they themselves are overweight?!
The sad fact remains though that
a) we have a lot of yidden who are putting themselves at risk in the health dept.
be that as it may
b)that’s no reason that heavy guys should be biased or even have a right to say no to a heavy girl.
If it’s ok for you, its ok for your partner too.