000646 -“Please explain why you say this being that she needs the Get.”
She needs a Get acc. to the Torah, but noone is forcing her to keep the Torah. If she wants to keep the Torah and get a Get, she has to do it on the B’D terms. They have the choice when s/o asks them to help with a Get to oversee the whole divorce process.
Why can’t you understand such a simple idea? While you might have a few Bottei Dinim that are corrupt, by & large most who do this -aren’t!
“Actually a Judge would say fine, go submit to Binding Arbitration for custody and assets if you want. In fact that is what happens in most Frum Divorces.”
When’s the last time you were in court? They will never tell you go for arbitration that’s not under their auspices. If you bring an arbitration agreement by yourself -more than likely they will accept it. Again you are living in your own little dream world -just to put down Bottei Dinim.
“Who here is being forced? why should any partner in a marriage be have to stay married if they no longer wish to?”
You answered your own question because of why they got rid of “fault only” divorce. Yes, noone should have to stay in a marriage they don’t want -hence the legislation. But the fact remains if one doesn’t want to get divorced -they will be forced by the court to get divorced.
Acc. to your train of thought that one party should never be forced to do anything when it comes to divorce and it’s immoral -where is your outcry on this law???? And don’t tell me B’D forcing the woman who asked for Get is different because we are talking about $ & custody; because the one party is also being forced to talk about $ & custody, even though he/she doesn’t want to get divorced.