Sushe,
You said
“A Ptur is not a Get. The Get can be done without a BD.”
Yeah, and B”D will not give it to her unless her get was done in front of a recognized B”D.
The point is simply that she cannot remarry without receiving a Get that is facilitated by a B”D.
B”D offers at a premium cost the service of facilitating a Get.
If somone wants to take advantage of this service, which happens to be their only choice if they ever want to get remarried they should not be forced to buy Arbitration services especially since when Arbitrating things like monetary issues and Custody of children it is very reasonable to want some oversight and recourse in case of Judicial misconduct.
It’s really simple, I am not sure what some of you have a hard time understanding….