The little I know,
Look B”D is a great concept. I am all for it.
But if there is no oversight or place to appeal too it is impossible for the system to stay straight. Absoloute power corrupts absoloutly!
If individual dayanim can threaten people who agreed to Arbitrate with them and there is no one to turn to to have them “Disbarred” that makes a B”D a very dangerous place to Arbitrate anything.
“You are not addressing individuals, but an entire system”
How can you ask people to Arbitrate anything let alone things having to do with children in a system with no oversight and no place to turn if the Dayanim are corrupt??