Naisberg,
You said:
“For good reason. She is in fact in violation of maintaining a Torah lifestyle, as clearly evidenced by the photos she publicly posed for and supplied the media.
Furthermore, every divorcing couple SHOULD be arbitrating their divorce in Beis Din as halacha demands them to.”
Your opinions as to were somebody should Arbitrate custody of their children is completely irrelevant to anyone but you.
Do you really not understand the moral problems with forcing a women to Arbitrate in a place she does not want to Arbitrate, or not making sure she understands the ramifications of signing a “Shtar Berurin” about something as important and real as cutody of her Children?
Do you honestly do not understand the moral issue with taking away a mother’s rights to see her children because you do not agree with her lifestyle?
If you cannot see the moral issues here I have nothing to say to you.