ok, ok, I read this thread now. (Or at least the OP).
So, what are you trying to say? That anyone who grows up frum should go spend a few months experiencing all that issur has to offer and then decide if he wants to come back, like the Amish do?
Or are you saying that people who grow up frum should think about life and Judaism, and make a personal connection with it? I do that all the time.