Reply To: Shidduch and faith

I’m sorry I didn’t give much details making you not sure. The article was talking about a question, what if you missed your beshert? The author says that Hashem finds a way to bring two people together. But what if, because of free will, we reject the person, not being sure that they are the one. Well you could call a shadchan and ask to go out with a previous person again, and if they are already married, then you know it wasn’t meant to be, and move on. To help us decide who to choose, we should pray for clarity so with Hashem’s help, we’ll know which one is for us.

Later, in an email, I got a message saying that sometimes we are waiting for something and we don’t know why we have to wait so long. However, a lesson we should take from it is to learn to trust Hashem, that He has a plan and when the time is right, we’ll receive what we are looking for, like a shidduch etc. We should continue to put in the effort, and then trust in Hashem. He might answer now or later, but He knows what is best