I dont have any solutions for you… rather some words of encouragement.
My husband was in the same situation as you find yourself, and he ended getting his Bachelors through a Yeshiva he attended years earlier. It was difficult getting through to them and it took lots of effort and waiting time. In the end, it worked out! But its all min hashamayim and you seem like one who will end up succeeding and getting the good you deserve! I know the right solution will come along. Trust me on this one.