oomis- i wont give you my opinion because, lets be honest, it wont change yours, nor do you plan on changing it. youre ideas kneged kollel are clearly set in stone, which is fine, youre entitled. but lets be honest, most guys that go to work are not nearly as yeshivish as yungerleit in kollel. i didnt say not as frum- they could be on par with yeshivileit in that regard, but as yeshivish? No way. and i really dont get you. if a girl wants to marry a working boy, fine. if she wants to marry a parapalegic, im sure youd be able to write an essay on how beautiful it is, and the schar shes getting, and what a deep person she must be. But to think of a girl who wants her husband to learn? that must be motivated by ulterior motives, and there cant be a tzad to be matzdik her. terrible, just terrible.
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