The reality is the biggest Media Market in the world in New York City which is also the home to probably the largest Chasidic communities in the world.
And the reality is seeing a chasidic person on the subway is considered a very normal site in the city. The BQE is the most crowded highway in the city and it passes right under Willimsburgh
People are curious about people who dress, speak and act different or unusual, there is nothing you can do to prevent that, infact being insular only adds to the curiosuity. especially since most have never met a Chasid except maybe at B&H Photo