attractive vs attracting- my humble opinion.
attractive meaning a young lady looks nice, pleasant, presentable, put together etc
attracting-when people on the street turn to get a better look. over the top, calling for attention.
i think its a fine line and not all girls can see it. i actually got a rude wake up call in a sense a few days ago. i was on the train and a man said to me after i stood up to transfer trains “you get off at x street, right?” so i said uuuhh ya i do….. and he said ya i get off there too…..
i don’t wear bright colored makeup or heavy makeup for a 3 day y”t but i do wear make up every day. i’m not going to stop wearing makeup but i think i am going to put it on a little lighter….
i’m not brave enough to go bare skinned and the few times i have, classmates want to know if i’m feeling OK because i am naturally very pale. i think it is accepted now for single girls of marriageable age-post HS and seminary to wear makeup. i’m not one to rock the boat and make waves by stopping or being one to set an example. in theory, it would be nice if we were judged as who we are and not what we wear but in this day and age…….