Hi cantgetit.
Are you serious?
You are being highly presumptuous that “women” are predictably identical.
I dont believe it’s the situation that is necessarily the reason for the problem (home versus work).
There are women who do great things outside the home and take care of inside the home with great diligence.
There are women who do great things outside at the expense of inside the home.
There are women who do not work outside the home and take care of their home with great diligence.
There are women who do not work outside the home and still neglect matters in the home.
Also, a woman’s influence on her husband and matters outside the home varies with each couple.
As long as it is within Torah guidelines, I support anything that liberates someone to make a choice and reach actualization.
I have found generalizing may help support a view, but in reality does not do justice to the full dimension of any topic.