GAW -“OK, why haven’t you done so?”
Oh – you got me here on this one. Now let me think -Ok I got it – because I don’t believe in a shotgun wedding.
“As long as their Rov tells them not to settle.”
Well if the Rov is telling them not to settle in their twenties -Ok. If the Rov is telling them not to settle in their thirties -Ok in very extenuating circumstances. If they hit 40 already, unless there are other issues besides settling, and the Rov still says not to settle, then IMHO he is Oiver L’fnei Michshol!