In the community I come from, the girls want their husband to learn just as much- if not more than- the husband wants to learn. They routinely will not even consider a shidduch with a guy who does not plan to learn at least 3-5 years after marriage.
Hence the shidduch crisis.
That is what the girls get for going to Israel, removing their brain, washing and scrubbing vigorously, and reprogramming it to the Sem teachers specifications. 😉