Reply To: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind?

modche1, I have been a Shadchan for many years and what you say about Shadchanim getting frustrated is true. People are very warm and fuzzy when you spend time with them before the Shidduch. After you make the Shidduch, they avoid you, many times.

But the main problem is having 10 girls or more for every guy (working OR learning). Only G-d knows the definite reason for this.

Otherwise, Id forgive and forget the nasty ones, and I’d make Shidduchim day and night, and so would many other Shadchanim. We dont have enough male material.