People will pay after?? I know many shadchanim (not offical ones) who never saw a penny or even a tah nkk you note. ONe of my chaveirim was a shadchan and they did not even invite him to the wedding!! I was once promised a huge shadchanus if I find a mate for a difficult bachur and BH I did. NOT A DOLLAR or even shaveh peruta. When the girl became ill a year after marriage they called me to blame me and said I hid facts from them. Ingrates!! They never looked in a spiritual mirror to see who to blame. I don’t want anything from them…… but for people who are doing it as a lifes mission, to be guaranteed that the money is there is meaningful.
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