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“Please every mother with a married child think of others! I started doing this when my eldest daughter married, I felt upset thinking about her gorgeous friends who were single.”
I wonder the point in you using the term “gorgeous” about your daughter’s friends. Do you consider all of them to be gorgeous or are you only thinking about your daughter’s gorgeous friends and not the others? This I believe is one of the great problems we have, people are “working” for the “gorgeous” girls and not for the rest. Work for girls as people, not as gorgeous objects. The older the girl gets the less “gorgeous” they are considered so they get fewer people “working” for them.