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Lechayim120:
While $11,000 is no small sum, however, over the course of a lifetime, it is not a lot of money. When I was single and without family in New York to help things along, if I had the cash, I would have given it in a heartbeat.
What no one here seems to remember is that Shadchanim and single girls are dealing with the same problem!
NOT ENOUGH OLDER GUYS FOR THE NUMBER OF OLDER GIRLS!!!!
Every single one of the older single girls paying the money WONT CHANGE THAT!!!!
For example, if there are 500 older single girls and 300 older single guys (most of whom dont want to be limited to dating their age girls), the girls are stuck, any which way, whether they pay or not!!!