Sam2:
You are on the wrong side of this one.
Firstly, no problems have come of this. The problems have come when rosa parks wannabe’s try to get in the news.
Second, that is not what this battle is about. Nobody but you is talking about precisely how it works or doesn’t in practice. The non frum and the MO are calling us bigots for thinking it is ok or proper to sit separately- everything else is peirush.