Granted that for many people stopping smoking is hard, – VERY hard, – EXTREMELY hard.
Question: If, chalila, you had a very sick child, and it was going to be extremely, extremely hard to get him or her the medical care they needed to save their life, would you say “Oh forget it, it’s just way too hard!” – OR would no effort be too great for you to make to overcome the obstacles to get your child that refuah?
Quitting smoking is VERY hard for you – I DO believe you.
BUT – You say you love your family? Then DO IT ANYWAY!!!