Reply To: Frustrated Mothers of Girls: Can we hear your ideas

oh sorry AZ , what i meant before, is i am finding, that mainstream shadchanim do not have many more boys “at their fingertips” then i as a mother of a girl do. We are all finding the same people. and the problem is getting the yes, so unless that boys mother for some reason would trust a shadchan (who met my daughter among a thousand for ten seconds) over a close, friend, relative, rav, or neighbor, whats the point. I personally feel any shadchan who has a guys resume in her collection, on hand, this guy already has some kind of issue that he needs her help. in some way…