Elizer,
Please tell that to the hundreds and hundreds of girls who are well past 30 and birerech hateva they can’t all get married…
Hashem allows us to mess up, and that’s exactly what we have done. Pretneding it’s not so will not make it go away.
I never said they couldn’t have gotten married in the past, i simply stated that in the present reality it’s not going to happen. (unless by some miracle 24 year old guys start marrying 34 year old young women.)
HASHEM got it right, but we messed up and are continuing to do so, though b’chasdei hashem some changes have begun to take root.
Biderech Hateva as long as the cherem dirabeinu gershoom is in effect, if there are 100 guys and 150 girls then 50 can’t get married.
It wasn’t Hashem who created this inequity of numbers, it’s us….