“too many parents are not strong enough (or agree) with the schools to create changes”
And that, is where blogs come into play.
You and I are old enough to remember a time when many ills in our midst were kept silent. Enter the web, and presto! The unheard voices, the unasked questions, are suddenly in the spotlight.
Don’t think revolution. Think evolution (no, not the darwin kind). A change in attitude comes slowly, but steadily.
There was a time that EVERYONE made a huge chasseneh or bar mitzvah or Shabbos Sheva Brachos. Along came the chassidim and takanah halls (in BP and Willy) and all of a sudden, its OK to be different.
No, its not for everyone, and no, it won’t happen en masse. But the change in the staus quo in reagard to the shidduch scene will happen. My guess? 5 years, max.