moi aussi:
It’s not related to birth rates for girls vs. birth rates for girls, it’ the simple reality that
a. in a growing population the younger grades are larger than the older grades
b. our dating style has girl starting at around 19 and guys at 22/23.
The net result is that each year far more girls enter the shidduch pool than guys, and thus each year there is a large number of girls with no on to match up with.
attitudes….. that’s a result of boys having the hammer, not the casue.