Always, I hear you that you don’t want to accept what I have to say. That is fine. You don’t appreciate my advice, I hear that as well. I am not judging you or your situation, I am concerned and just pointing things out to make the point and encourage you to take action. I did not say you had SS, I said that it is beginning to sound like what victims of that disorder sound like when they defend their abusers and captors. That makes no sense, and victims of abuse taking blame for abuse makes no sense either, but it happens.
You needed support and I offered you my support, you don’t have to accept it. I am very happy for you that you are seeking help. Hatzlocha Rabba.