The shadchan should be told why and it helps for her to redd u something more on target next time. However I feel that a date doesn’t need to know the real reason why if it will hurt them, unless its something pareve. For instance if you just feel that ur personalities don’t go well enough that’s fine to say but if you feel that this person isn’t good looking enough for u why say it and make the person feel bad when beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
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