Health the publicity in the general media is upsetting not just because of the outside world, but most of all because of what it is doing to our world, with the relationship between different Jews becoming increasingly embittered and ugly.
There are many jews who have never dealt with frum Jews, people who once may have been open minded but are given images which can only negatively affect their ideas about what the frum world is about. These images are grotesque but thankfully isolated. The embarrassment I feel and share with others is not just about the gentile response, but most of all the Jewish response, the confirmation of unfounded sterotypes and preconceptions.