AWWSF, did you invite her?
I just have one question. Granted, everyone should be more welcoming to newcomers, but who said that he got ignored because of his srugi, maybe he got ignored like everyone who is new?
Make that two questions, everyone complains about yidden about not being welcoming to strangers, but when terrible incidents like the one we had this summer, everyone whines that you have to be careful and you cant trust anyone.