Soliek, +1!
Scissors, ???? ?????. We FFBs have our share of ???????. At least you know there’s nowhere to run back to. Please realize that the negative you encounter has nothing to do with frumkeit and all to do with inner-city bigotry, narrow-mindedness, and conspicuous consumerism. I know many OOT (and OOUSA) FFBs who are even frummer than the ones you live amongst, and they’re open-minded, accepting, and well-mannered.
Sam, “Not everyone agrees that the elbows and knees must be covered…”
Of those that don’t, 50% of their kids text on Shabbos.