Jothar- why are you babysitting this CR?
What business do you have following posters and making sure everyone’s doing what’s right?
With a stalker, I can understand you don’t want other to get hurt, but in this case- as sad as it is, why is this up for discussion?
If you feel like you have to give Mussar, do it privately. Get a hold of that specific poster’s email or ask the editor to email him/her.
HALF- who exactly accussed you of being the one? You basically volunteered that it might be you.