Reply To: So you're married…THEN WHAT?!

Marriage isn’t what scares me-its that I feel like I’ve been living all my life for a shidduch so my life’s going to be “over” when I get married. Gone will be my show, impressing everyone…

Real life may begin but what is that if not living for shidduchim? then what is the purpose?! so obviously to serve hashem but what’s the difference between before and after marriage then?