AHM, mt – I disagree, These people are voluntering their services (you think they have nothing better to do with their time?). Anything extra is a bonus, if you don’t like the way they are offering it don’t take it. Asking for more is merely being a kofuy tov. I had an experince where I offered a hitchicker a ride, and he first made me drive him 15 minutes out of my way (each direction), then he made me turn off the heat (it was a freezing night) then he made me shut the music I was playing. And then he asked me to say a dvar torah. And finaly when I reached the destantaion where he requested he realized it was the wrong place, and made me take him somewhere else. Now was he right? After all I was doing a chessed, I should do it right!?
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