Reply To: If somebody wants to work on their middos, where would you tell them to start?

I don’t know what kind of an answer you’re expecting since nobody here knows you or has experience as a mashpia/mashgiach.

Anyone who is working on their middos will just tell you what to do what they started with because “hey, why not? It worked for me.”

Anyone who isn’t has nothing useful to add but will probably open their mouths anyway.