this is a great question. I always feel bad when i “forget” or dont acknowledge what my husband does. I usually notice when he does help around the house. There are times when he’ll do the dishes while i’m doing something else and i’ll only notice it later when he’s not home and forget to thank him when he comes home. Or there are times when i’m so distracted that i’ll walk into the clean room or notice the floor polished out of the corner of my eye and i just dont acknowledge it! I’m 100% wrong and i’m working on myself to appreciate what my husband does.
There are times when my husband will be so proud of what he did and say something like ‘I was able to get all the grime off the crock pot! Did you notice?’ And then the guilt comes in and i get insulted that he’s reminding me…cant explain the feeling.