Reply To: Do ladies think?

I think the coffee room misunderstood my question. Of course husbands should feel appreciated and thanked for helping out. My question is whether the husband has to specifically TELL his wife what he did to help her out. For example, the husband washes the dishes while the wife was out shopping for groceries. Does he now have to tell his wife that he washed the dishes while she was out shopping, or is she supposed to look around the kitchen and notice it herself?