The ???? ?????? brings down the ????? ???? that Notpashut mentioned ealier (actually a long time ago 🙂 ) and says that playing dreidel (and he’s ???? that it’s for money) is different. For each specific game one needs to ask his LOR.
As far as the ???? in ??????? that a few posters keep bringing up, the ???? in that ???? is like ? ????? – that as long as they have another job they are perfectly acceptable for ????? – which means that they are NOT, ??????, considered thieves.