..I would say – Take a tip from Poppy.
Yaakov Avinu
Medrash says Yaakov Avinu had in his heart to divorce Leah Imenu (for reasons not relevant now). Immediately, Medreash says, HaShem sent children her way. So Yaakov reconsidered, “How can I send away the mother of these?” Eventually she became the ikeres habayis.
Some times staying on selflessly for the sake of the children pays off in the long run.