miritchka -“My point is that the BY and Yeshivos should prepare their students of how to behave in those environments. Even if they hold its assur, they should be teaching their students how to live the way that they were taught in this confusing world.”
I understand your way of thinking, but the schools can’t go along with that because then they would be hypocrites. They’re screaming college is Ossur, but they will teach – this is the way to handle it when you are there. They don’t want anybody to think that they aren’t practicing what they preach. Even if the reality is people go -they are on their own. They won’t prepare them for such an eventuality!