Hi zahavasdad.
At some point we are individuals and at some point we are Jews. On the side of the coin where we are Jews, there have to be some commonalities that define us as such, to varying degrees.
It is in which commonalities we share, and to what varying degree, that defines us as individuals to where no two Jews are identical.
I understand how you see things, and your view is an impression I used to have, too, but in Judaism, I can say almost nothing is what it seems on the surface. It is an ongoing learning experience.
Hi Avram in MD. Thank you.