Reply To: what happens when a shadchan doesnt cooperate properly?

Popa,

I am involved with my nephew because his mother is unwell and I am sorta taking over with re-to shidduchim.

But thats not the prob, its known to shadchonim and they contact me!

As far as getting a different shadchan to arrange it, thats a non issue. First I am curious to know whats holding her back, and wondering if I should just throw the towel in and conclude that it is not bashert!