Reply To: My friend, the shadchan, and his issue(s)

Sorry. I figured more details would shed light on things and make it easier to provide productive and educated responses. Here it is in a nutshell:

Issue 1: Communication between the boy and girl in a long-distance shidduch where logistically, neither person is able to travel for several weeks.

Issue 2: A long-distance relationship where one person is scheduled to travel and calls off the shidduch at the last minute.

Issue 3: When messages should be passed through the shadchan and when they should go directly from boy to girl (or vice-versa).

If you would like to speak generally regarding these issues, then this post is sufficient. If you would like to speak to the specifics of the situation I described above, please read the post above to get more details.

Also, I am sorry for the appearance of the original post. When I typed it, it was with paragraphs. Somehow it came into the coffee room as one long thing.