This whole idea is idiotic. Hashem decides who gets married and when. this initiative shows a tremendous lack of bitachon.
So when you’re ready to get married, don’t bother meeting any girls; that would show a lack of bitachon.
According to your logic, the first NASI initiative also was based on a lack of bitachon. I guess you’re frummer than the 70 roshei yeshiva who supported it.