Aries: If you would like to contact me via yeshiva world or even via the shidduch project, I would be glad to work with you to bring real effective change to this terrible situation. (I am admitedlly very very unfamiliar with the specifics and don’t know 1/100th of what you do, but i think i could be of help in bringing about the changes you suggest.)
If I was you I wouldn’t waste my time trying to get Agudah to be at the forefront of this issue but i’m not going to discuss this point in this forum.