I was once set up by a well-known shadchan (I was not aware that my name was even given to the person by a friend of the family). I went out with the guy a couple of times and the shadchan IMMEDIATELY began to pressure my parents and me with a what aare you waiting for attitude. I ended up breaking it off with the boy after a few more dates, primarily because he was not for me, as I came to realize, but also because of the feeling of being rushed into something by someone who did not even know me personally.
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