As much as they won’t admit it, the boys need shadchanim. Shadchanim should start wielding this power.
I guess you’d be arguing for a shadchanim’s union. Because if guys just stop dealing with a particular shadchan the others will just stop in. Seems to me.
Besides, I get confused when people talk about socializing being a solution to anything. We have plenty of singles events in the frum community, they are just seen as something you do when shadchanim haven’t worked. But it isn’t taboo.