probably
they probably would say they didnt notice you
maybe they noticed you but were concentrating and figured someone else would surely give you a seat
whatever it is, i find it difficult to condemn a whole bunch of frum Jewish women who come to shul to hear the Megillah
i understand how you feel, and i wasnt there, and im sure the best of our Jewish women would have made a point of noticing you and giving you a seat,
but i just cant condemn themthere is always another side to the story
and usually when we hear it our heart softens and we drop our previously harsh judgement
thank you for not getting defensive and for listening thoughtfully to those here that did not fully agree with you.