Reply To: Anyone can help?

wow I just read what I wrote and I sound really bad….I’m not suicidal or depressed (at least I don’t think so :)) I’m really a happy, stable, healthy (just a little under the weather now) person. And in general I’m not like this at all….

Sam2 – I’m not exactly sure what you’re saying. Sorry but I”m a little confused.

am yisrael chai – thanks for the practical advice. I’m going to try to do it. 🙂 (now I need to actually find time to 😉 but I will. And welcome back!!!!!!! I saw a thread about you leaving….you’re words are always inspirational (there is another word but I’m blanking on it).

observateen – hey thanks 🙂 I checked out the site and did the test, it’s kinda creepy how it’s basically accurate. I don’t think I have anxiety, the test didn’t say I did (that’s not why it’s accurate). I want to look into the thing cuz it looks really good, thanks.

lol I’m on here 🙂 (I’ve been lurking rather than posting) and I have done stuff but then I just feel like I should be doing 1600 other stuff that I need to do.

And my friends are happy people, in general. I don’t want to get into too much detail but we’re all stressed and have a lot going on but when we’re together we still laugh and are happy people, just there’s nothing we can do. I think that’s what I meant, how they can’t even help (even though they’re the only ones who understand.) That’s life though, right? 🙂

soliek – thanks 🙂 I’ll keep that in mind. But seriously it’s not so simple to chill when you find out that some of your friends aren’t keeping Shabbos…

So you’re bomb (you don’t have to answer :)) I was wondering what happened to you. Thanks for asking about her. She’s ok. We just saw each other over a recent Shabbos (I don’t remember which) and her life has gotten worse, but in her words she says its better because now she is ready to let go. I was telling her what you said, about how she has to emotionally detach from her mother. I forgot exactly what you said, how you did it living in your house so after Shabbos I copy and pasted everything onto a document so I can reread it and then give her more helpful tips from someone who actually was in the same boat. But she’s moving out!!!!!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 (I just need to find her a space to live now, but at least that) and let me tell you this, I just found out (from here) of some other things that she went though, I’m in awe of her cuz you would never know of any of this if you met her on the street!!!

Thanks everyone.